Så bemöter du en gnällspik

Personligt Hur ska man som vd bemöta personer som sprider negativism? Vd-tidningen ställde frågan till inspiratören PG Wettsjö som har en föreläsning med rubriken ”Konsten att kommunicera med en surgubbe”.

Så bemöter du en gnällspik
PG Wettsjö tipsar om att tillbringa mer tid med dem man ogillar. Foto: EQP Business School

Alla har vi mött personer som vi inte gillar, både i jobbet och privat. En person som av olika anledningar går en på nerverna.

Någonting är fel

Du är inloggad som prenumerant hos förlaget Pauser Media, men nånting är fel. På din profilsida ser du vilka av våra produkter som du har tillgång till. Skulle uppgifterna inte stämma på din profilsida – vänligen kontakta vår kundtjänst.

– Ett grundråd är att behärska dig när du möter någon som irriterar dig. Ta kontroll över dina känslor och fokusera mer på hur du beter dig än på hur den andra personer beter sig, säger PG Wettsjö.

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