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Hur ska man som vd bemöta personer som sprider negativism? Vd-tidningen ställde frågan till inspiratören PG Wettsjö som har en föreläsning med rubriken ”Konsten att kommunicera med en surgubbe”.

PG Wettsjö tipsar om att tillbringa mer tid med dem man ogillar. Foto: EQP Business School
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